♥ K a r i n a ♥ Thursday, July 27, 2006
hey people, i just read my sister's blog a couple of days ago. She was talking about her first love. I guess i'm big enough to understand what love really means. Everyone will go through this phase as we move on the journey of life. LOVE= a strong positive emotion of regard and affection. It is a pretty strong word and requires mutual understanding,acceptance and courage to be able to achieve such feeling. There are people who are afraid to love or to accept love as they have the fear of getting emotionally hurt, losing the other half and many more. Other than that, you are exposed to insecurities,jealousy and distraction as you might be emotionally unstable. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define. We have to be emotionally strong to accept love. It can be sweet, but it can be bitter as well. Love can also make a person hate. We all need somebody to love and to care for us as we need a companion to accompany us as we move on to prevent us from loneliness and emptiness. Well i've personally got pretty hurt by some past experience. I realised that love cant be achieve in just a short period of time. It requires time as we slowly get to understand and to know the beauty of that particular person. We must never be afraid to get back on the right track again even after falling out of love. It might not be easy, but i believe that everyone have their special someone waiting for them in some point of our life. We just need to have the patience, do not rush things and perseverence We must not have negative toughts of ourself as we need confidence and courage. Before you want the others to love you, you have to learn how to love yourself as well. Crush,Admiration,like? They are not the same as love. Do not misunderstood things. Investigate carefully before ruling out any possibilities of love. There might be people we like and do not like us along the way. Dont give up as there will be someone out there who cant wait to explore your personalities and to share all the ups and downs in life with you. Do not be wishy washy in making decision. Follow your heart as wrong decisions might lead to the failure of a relationship. It is not about how you look but it is about how your personalities reflect you. Find that special someone who is able to accept your good points and also your flaws at the same time without complaining much. If they are not able to accept you, that's not love. Love can just come by anytime without even you realising it.
Wow! that was hell long.. I didint know i could write so much about that four letter words. I've spent almost 18 years of my life finding what i want in life. I want a simple, carefree and happy life. My dream seems easilly achieved but it requires strong personalities to maintain. I do not blame god for creating conflicts along the way as i know that i'll learn and grow to be a more mature person. I might not have big ambitions of taking up high flying jobs or challenging people from all walks of life. As least i'm happy enough. I hated being in a pressured environment. I love helping people. Giving them advices when they needed me because seeing them smile again gives me the sense of satisfaction, it makes me happy,it motivates me and it also makes me want to find out what is next for me. We all have sweet and bitter moments. Dont be afraid to face them because YOU CAN DEFEAT them against all odds. You can if you think you can. Life is not about beng in the in-groups in school, looks,popularity and many more. It is about finding ultimate happiness. Of course, there are bound to be people who cant wait to see you fall. Dont be afraid to stand up for yourself. If you care about how people think about you all the time, life would have been miserable. I know it its pretty scary to grow up but this is what everyone have to go through. Till then, i rest my case. Pretty hungry at the moment. Do come back for more pictures on my singapore trip soon!
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